Pottery, willow, and leather have never looked so romantic!
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Nine! Freaking! Years! Can we just take a sec to celebrate that?! You and your spouse are 365(ish) days away from 10 years of marriage together and that’s a BFD. And as their favorite person, you obvi haven’t made it this far without knowing how to purchase a gift or two. But if you’re hoping to go even bigger/better/more tear-inducing than last year’s anniversary gift, I’ve come up with some sentimental, on-theme gift ideas that are sure to be a hit.
As you probably know by now, every anniversary year has specific themes. It’s traditional to give pottery and willow for your ninth anniversary—pottery represents something that's been transformed over time into a beautiful masterpiece (all together now: awww), and willow represents strength and flexibility (the two things you need to make a partnership work!). But if you’re like, “Pottery and willow sound kinda unsexy,” you can also choose the modern theme of leather, which represents durability, warmth, and something that gets better with time (one more time: awww).
It’s not quite silk (12 years), crystal (15 years), or diamonds (30 years!!!) but there are actually tons of aesthetic gifts that your love of nine years is sure to adore, and I've rounded up some of the best ideas below. From leather accessories to gorgeous ceramic creations to some v loose interpretations of "willow," here are all the best ways to say, "Hey, thanks for putting up with me for nine years." Happy anniversary, love birds!!
These modern ceramic statues are great for just about any anniversary, but they couldn't have been a better fit than for the one celebrating 9 years together.
If it's been 9 years, there's a good chance that y'all think you've tried just about every date night in the book, but we're here to (maybe) prove you wrong. This craft box complete with air dry clay, conversation cards, chocolate, and everything you need to make your next favorite dish makes for the perfect excuse to keep date night lowkey.
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Whether you just got the keys to a new place or are celebrating nine years and counting in your newlywed home, this address plaque is a sweet take on the pottery theme.
If you’d consider yourselves ~wine people~, this hand-thrown wine coaster stamped with your wedding date is the perfect little memento.
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This is your sign to not underestimate the gift of a leather wallet. After all, they’ll use it every single day, right? It’s something your spouse might not think to upgrade but will appreciate for years to come.
Can you believe you’ve been married for 4,732,720 minutes and counting? Now that’s a milestone worth remembering!
Does your spouse have (or aspire to have) a green thumb? Support their hobby by gifting them some gorgeous pots that’ll spruce up your shared space.
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This bestselling pebble leather tote bag is big enough to hold a laptop and versatile enough to take anywhere—plus, it's called the "Willow Tote," which feels meant-to-be, no?
Rather than actually carving your initials into bark, get 'em a keepsake stoneware vase customized with your first initials and made to look like the bark of a tree. (Perhaps a willow tree...?)
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Available as a canvas, metal, or paper print, this customizable willow tree wall art is pretty much guaranteed to make your S.O. cry happy tears—and you can even get it framed if you're feeling extra.
This travel tote makes packing feel like a total breeze. Complete with vegan leather trim, it truly has the space for all the things your spouse needs on their next trip—or your next trip together.
Why not dress up their most-worn accessory, right? This leather band for their Apple Watch is sure to be a splurge-worthy hit.
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Available in a bunch of different color options, this clay stoneware wine glass can be personalized however you like, and it's almost too gorgeous to actually use...keyword being almost.
They'll never wanna drink out of a normal glass again once they sip a beverage out of this stoneware whisky tumbler, which you can get personalized with both of your initials or a number "9" inside of a heart on the bottom. Cute!!
Available in sterling silver or stainless steel, these long willow branch earrings will look fly as hell dangling from your beloved's earlobes.
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Nine years of gifts probably means quite the collection of jewelry has been collected. Give your S.O. a nice place to put their prized possessions for the many more years to come. (Bonus points if you put a piece of jewelry inside the box as another lil gift.)
These sleek coasters with a personal touch come in a set of four to turn their morning coffees and at-home happy hours into a more stylish occasion.
Hannah Oh
Assistant Shopping Editor
Hannah is the assistant shopping editor at Cosmopolitan, covering all things from cute apartment decor to trendy fashion finds, TikTok products that are actually worth your $$$, and the perfect gift to buy for your boyfriend's mom. She previously wrote for Seventeen and CR Fashion Book. Follow her on Instagram for hot takes on red carpet fashion and unhinged updates on the books she’s reading on the train.
Chaise Sanders
Associate Editor
Chaise Sanders is an Associate Editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers anything from lifestyle and beauty to entertainment and style. Wanna upgrade your skincare game? She's got you covered with the best facial cleansing brushes. Or maybe you're in need of a new true crime show to binge? Got that covered too! Prior to joining the Cosmo team, Chaise was an editor at Country Living (also part of the Hearst fam) where she interviewed celebs like Dolly Parton, LeAnn Rimes and even Martha Stewart. Now, as one of the Big Apple's newest residents, there's a good chance that you can catch her checking out an Insta-worthy cafe or spending way to much $$$ in vintage stores.